The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. For more about IWSG, see below!
This month, the optional question is: If you ever did stop writing, what would you replace it with?
I can't imagine not writing. The seemingly simple challenge of writing is such a part of me, whether with keyboard or pen, or a mix of drawing and writing. On one level, writing is a daily commitment. On another, writing allows me to connect more deeply with what's happening around me -- and inside, what I'm thinking and feeling. Stop writing? Nah.
In fact, I have a friend about my age who is writing her first poem. She e-mailed me, asking how I do this because it's so hard -- and easier to send that Hallmark greeting card. Yet she is trying to write a poem to comfort a woman who lost her husband, calling up memories of her own loss. How can I tell her that her poem is the deepest gift.
So, if the words did finally leave, what would I replace that loss with? I only can say we're not made of one dimension. Each connection outside of ourselves and within is important. So I would probably dive into another interest -- quilting, reading, walking, maybe even cooking (although after nearly 80 years, I have to confess that cooking is getting a little boring). Oh, and that new interest that popped up this spring, watercolor. Do you know that youtube has amazing mini-lessons for beginners?
Update on the writing: After last month's meeting with my writing partner, I faced anew my current wip and chopped out 4K words. That mss has been wrestled into a working shape with recognizable scene progressions, a flexible map for each section, and a nice 35K word overall draft (goal maybe 70K). I know who my characters are and where they're going. What's next: Having fun with plot twists and asking, oh dear, what can go wrong now!
What was fun this last writing session? Researching Egyptian proverbs and putting them in my draft. Here's one to pique your interest. Plus a picture from our trip so long ago to Giza:
What is still hidden is more than what has been revealed so far.
--Egyptian proverb
Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling.
Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer - aim for a dozen new people each time - and return comments. This group is all about connecting! Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
The awesome co-hosts for the June 7 posting of the IWSG are Patrcia Josephine, Diedre Knight, Olga Godim, J. Lenni Dorner, and Cathrina Constantine!
I love stories that have anything to do with Egypt! How exciting. And it's exciting that you have so many things you enjoy doing. Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind thoughts. Writing still comes first. Just read your first post and hope you find that elusive title for that next story -- the one that's so close to being finished and ready for its readers. Inspiring.
DeleteI'm not planning to drop my writing either. But I have other things I could do like you. That's awesome that your manuscript is going well.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Natalie. You just joined my group of let's keep writing, even if what we write may change.
DeleteHi, Beth! I'll be honest, I'm not sure I could imagine you not writing either. I can imagine you doing other things, yes. We all contain multitudes. But no... imagining you not writing just feels unreal
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm looking forward to seeing what you wrote this month. Sometimes realities do change as what we can imagine. I spent today helping my son-in-law clean up after their water heater broke. I have a new appreciation for the peace of my office and quiet mornings. Not everyone has such luxury, and I am grateful and hopeful I can keep writing.
Delete<3 We are blessedly lucky. I remind myself of that every day
Delete"How can I tell her..." If your friend is reading this, you just told her. I'm sure she knows what a gem of a friend you are;-)
ReplyDeleteWatercolor is a fantastic alternative, both calming and creative. Maybe you could find time for both? Best wishes on the manuscript.
Thank you, Diedre, for visiting and commenting. Yes, we did talk. The watercolor is a little gift I give myself, and I agree, the process is both calming and creative. It's also fun to have something new to learn. For writing is about possibility, yes?
DeleteEgyptian proverbs? Your picked my interest. I want to know more.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Olga. That's what's fun about doing research for my story. There's always something unexpected! Thank you for visiting!
DeleteBeautiful blog
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ReplyDeleteI agree that research for writing is fun! I know so many things I never would have learned if not for needed to know for a story.
ReplyDeleteYes, learning new things is so much fun. Being older, though, means I forget things I once knew . . . and have the fun of relearning!
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